Abigale Foster

Abigale Foster

Writing has been my passion since I started reading lit seriously in my second year of school. After 6-7 years of keen pursuit, I can honestly say it’s simply what I love most in life – its endless challenge, and its spiritual exercise. If something sets me apart, it’s not the experiences I’ve had that I endeavour to share – it’s the time I’ve spent reading, sipping the great voices of the form, and trying to let them flow through in my own language. At RL, I write meditative pieces on issues of everyday human life.

Procedures of Happiness

A brief response to “I am completely dependent on my girlfriend for happiness. How do I find happiness in myself?”
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The Balance Of Holding On And Letting Go

Ideally, we are ambidextrous: we hold when something needs to be held, and release when release is necessary. At other times, we do something incredible, ‘holding on’ and ‘letting go’ simultaneously.

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The seduction of beauty at a distance, like the spell of a mirage, holds me captive as long as I believe it will stay perfect upon contact. By contrast, nearness is the most difficult state in which to see beauty – so the absent, hidden, and distant attract, while the present, the ordinary, feels flat and insufferable.

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We are such a sensitive surface that we can’t remember the exit, an exit, from the weathers of our temperament.

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