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EP47: Dating Advice for Singles In Their ’30s and Beyond

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Episode Summary

Meet Shauntay Dunbar, an author, dating expert, and entrepreneur from the Bronx, NY.  Today she shares how being single again, in New York City in her 30s during the age of online dating and social media, prompted her to write her first book, Diving in Stilettos First: Memoirs of Dating Mr Right Now!  During the writing process, she learned a lot about herself and the kind of person she wanted to be. If you are curious about how a relationship expert navigates the dating world dealing with the good, bad, and ugly sides of meeting new people, you’ll want to catch this episode. 

Today’s Guest

Shauntay Dunbar

Shauntay continues to share her experiences while spreading her message of self-love via her podcast HerView and social media on her Instagram Live Shows: Her View. The blog, Tales from the Single Relationship Expert, is enlightening and informative. In addition, Shauntay has appeared on television and podcasts engaging in healthy conversations about love, life, dating, divorce, and self-awareness; she’s currently working on book number two.

You’ll Learn

🖤 About Shauntay’s journey navigating the dating world after her divorce, an experience that prompted the writing of her first book

🖤 What she noticed with the guys she was attracting

🖤 What questions Shauntay has learned to ask when she is dating and why they are essential to her process

🖤 What Shauntay did when she noticed she was attracting the wrong men for her

🖤 How she learned not to lose herself in a relationship or hop from one relationship to the other

🖤 How to recognize and act when faced with the red and green flags of dating

🖤 Her final piece of advice to anyone considering dating again


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