The hardest part about losing someone you’re not ready to lose is accepting the fact that you’re better off without this person in your life; that your days will be brighter without them; that all the love you gave them wasn’t enough. It’s accepting that this person you lost was okay with losing you.
If you’re sitting in a dark room right now, crying into a big bowl of ice-cream while you stalk your ex and their new lover on Instagram, you’re not alone.
Here’s what most people don’t understand about women who don’t want to have children: it’s a conscious choice, unrelated to finding the right mate or wanting to have a family.
“Because it all starts with a vision: if you can envision a bright future being the best possible version of yourself, then surely, you will become it.”