This post may contain affiliate links and I may be compensated for purchases visitors make through these links. I only promote products and services I really care about and that I think are useful. Read the full policy here.

As I write this article in my apartment in France, the fate of my Christmas has not yet been sealed. James and I await further direction on whether family gatherings will be permitted and depending on where you are in the world, you may be facing similar circumstances. It is an odd time, but regardless of the outcome, the holidays can still be celebrated! In fact, the team here at Rebel Love wants you to have the best one yet! Even though you may hear, “no one should be alone for the holidays,” after adding these 13 sex-positive items to your wish list, you’ll be begging to fly solo this holiday season! So, without further ado, here’s to your pleasure and creating new traditions!

Happy Holidays from your Covid-conscious, sex-positive Rebel Love Fam!

Inexpensive Adventures & Sex Education

Depending on how the pandemic has affected you, organizing for the new year can be a riveting or daunting process. As 2020 comes to a close, many of us are screaming “good riddance,” with no intention of looking back. Of course, the state of the future is still unknown, and yet, as we approach this new chapter, I feel a rising sense of hope. To keep the positive spirits high, let’s add a few inexpensive adventures and some sex education to our holiday wish lists! Having an affordable portion of your wish list offers some upbeat anticipation for the New Year.

  1. Intimacy Under the Stars

Having been cooped up inside for the majority of 2020 has caused some restlessness. Being out in nature was something we all deeply took for granted. Make 2021 the year of intimate experiences under the stars. All you need is a blanket and the privacy of a backyard or patio. If you’re single, light some candles, put on soothing sounds, and grab your dearest robotic companion. Don’t have one? Keep reading.

  1. Homemade Porn

Do you have voyeuristic desires, but aren’t sure how to fulfill them in our Covid-conscious world? Easy fix! Grab your phone, your partner (or your most beloved sex toy), and create some movie magic! This wish list item comes with caution, as you may not want this leaking online. Not so sure about that? Consider turning your features into financial freedom by gifting yourself an Only Fans page. That’s one way to start a sexually liberated 2021!

  1. Group Sex

If you’re anything like James and I, you’re missing sex-socials! Meeting like-minded people in the flesh! A great alternative to this is creating a FetLife account. Yes, it’s time to gift yourself some kinky online events! It’s a great gateway into the community, as you’re in the comfort (and safety) of your own home.

  1. Online Sexual Skill Building and Education

In the same vein as numero trois, if you want 2021 to be filled with sexual skill-building or education, FetLife Events are a great place to start. If you’re interested in indulging a smidge, check out Kink Academy. It is subscription-based, but worth the immense library of sexual unconventionality.

From Classics to New Generation

A sex-positive 2021 wouldn’t be the same without some inspiration. Here you’ll find top sex toys cultivated from blogger reviews, Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and our own research – we only share the best with our Rebel Love Army.

  1. The Magic Wand Massager

On every review blog, and near the top of every sex toy list, you will find this classic! It is so popular that nearly every intimate lifestyle company has launched their own version of the magic wand. Even so, the Hitachi original remains the iconic best-selling massager for over 30 years.

different sex-positive items in different colors
  1. Premium by Womanizer

The world’s first Womanizer was launched in 2014 and has been revolutionizing female pleasure ever since! Giving unprecedented orgasms for over five years, who could go wrong by adding this to their wish list?

  1. B-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set

Anal sex is an art. It can be intimidating at first, but with B-Vibe’s anal training and education set, you’ll feel like a pro in no time!

  1. 50 Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Despite the wordy name, or whether you were a fan of Mr. Grey, this item has a luxurious look and feel! It provides twelve speeds and patterns for internal pleasure and three titillating speeds for external bliss.   

  1. The Screaming O Hare Double Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring

Not only will the double vibration send intense waves of pleasure through your cock and body, but the twin rings will keep you harder for longer. The ears of the rabbit get the job done, as it tickles and strokes your partner’s clitoris – bringing you both to a peak while getting the work done for you!

  1. Wet for Her Double Dildo

Wet for Her products were made by women for pussies, so you can expect nothing less than ultimate pleasure from this far-reaching, double-penetrating, non-phallic design.

Do you have sexy items on your Christmas wish list? 😏

Equipment and Furniture for Extra Pleasure

  1. Fifty Shades Freed Pleasure Overload Set

If you’re a BDSM novice, I recommend a starter kit for first steps and exploration. For the ultimate luxury experience, Fifty Shades Freed Pleasure Overload Set is the way to go. If the price is a bit steep for you at the moment – or you’re unsure how willing you are to commit to the lifestyle – test out this inexpensive, 10-piece BDSM starter pack!

  1. Lovehoney’s Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo
different sex-positive items in black color

Your favorite positions will be that much more pleasurable with Lovehoney’s liberator wedge ramp combo! In fact, I couldn’t say it better myself:

“Liberator sex cushions are designed specifically to lift you and your partners bodies into prime position for optimum contact and pleasure during intimate play. Not only that, but they help you sustain your position for longer, boosting your staying power for faster, more regular orgasms, without cramp. No breaks = more sex = more climaxes!” – Lovehoney

You read them right! No breaks! More sex! More climaxes!

  1. XRB Obedience Chair

Want a unique piece for your playroom? Check out XRB’s obedience chair. It’s heavy-duty and comfortable, which only means one thing – it can be used for hours!

Here’s to a happier, healthier, pleasure-filled 2021!

Until next time,

Fuck well, friends!

Quean Mo xx